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Sapph's avatar

Learning how to do stuff. You see that bicycle thingy? *Inserts that WhatsApp sticker of a pencil/black ink figure wailing profusely*. It's like the ocean, I'm in love with the waves, but I'm terrified to swim. It didn't matter much to me in the beginning, but as I grew older, I just admired people who can ride a bike, and everywhere I turn, it's like everyone but me knows how to ride a bike. From my 5 years old cousin to my 30 years old cousin, they can all ride bikes. One time, I decided to suck it up and learn and I was lucky enough to have willing teachers, but guess what? I didn't want to fall, which is just impossible when you're learning to ride a bike. So, I gave up 😭. But like you, I've also wondered how my kids would learn if I don't know how to do it 😭😭😭. Sometimes, there's no learning without pain and I guess riding a bicycle is one of those times. So, until I suck it up again and get ready to fall, I'll be admiring everybody who has learned the skill around me and the Koreans on my screen (it's like a national sport/skill for them, and it's so beautiful to see. They can 'all' ride bikes 🥺).

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Merriam's avatar

Hmmm.......in the bid to appear "nice", " caring", "humble" and all, some of us end up paying soo much for soo little.....this is so me sometimes.

Guess I need to start weighing my options before making decisions......This is an amazing newsletter!

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