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Sapph's avatar

Heyy, I'm definitely that book lover.

And I see you quoted my guy, haha, a genius writer.

But on a serious note, everybody changes, it's the only constant thing in life. So, I think that the best thing is to live fully in the present, not three steps back in the past and five steps into the future. And when change eventually comes, because it will, you welcome it, willingly or otherwise. To do otherwise would be stressful. V's mentor must have been so stressed, always anticipating change and probably holding the people in the present to standards of change that have not yet come, that may never come. Smh

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Hameed's avatar

'...holding the people in the present to standards of change that have not yet come, that may never come.'

Love it. Thanks for sharing :)

And yes, Fredrik Backman is a genius!!

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Ai's avatar

Hey Hameed,

A new fan here. I love the article.

I have a question.

Since we all change in character and how we perceive things around us, we grow right? Now is changing different from growing or do they mean the same thing? I'm using the context of human behavior.

I ask people these and I got different replies. I'm curious to know yours.

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Hameed's avatar

Hi Hernon,

I honestly do not know the answer to this question :)

Thanks for joining the community!

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